9 Ground Rules To Fighting Fair In A Relationship

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Fighting Fair   Fighting Fair In A Relationship   Some people believe if you fight in your relationship it means you don’t get along with each other and you’ll more than likely break-up. Others believe fighting is good for a relationship because people have their own opinion’s and they’re passionate about things.  I believe couples will fight regardless if it’s good for a relationship or not. The important thing isn’t if you’re fighting, it’s if you guys

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5 Ways You Can Be More Romantic in Your Relationship

Being more romantic in your relationship

Do You Need to Be More Romantic?     Why You Need to Be More Romantic In Your Relationship   Being romantic is a fun and creative way to show your partner you love them. In the beginning of a relationship most people are really good at being romantic. As time goes on, people slow down and get comfortable and then the romance can take a back seat.   It’s sad that people forget to

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Romance – What Men & Women Really Want

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Romance What Men & Women Really Want     What is Romance?   Romance – this word reminds me of the old Mills & Boon books my mum used to read. You know the kind where the man rides on a horse and saves the woman in distress and they live happily ever after.   Well, unfortunately, relationships are not always like that and as for the happily ever after, most people have to work their

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5 Ways To Show Your Partner You Love Them

5 Ways to show your partner you love them

How to Show Your Partner You Love Them   Loving Your Partner How are you loving your partner? Think about all the things you do specifically for your partner, some are big things and some are trivial little things but they are all done out of love. Most of the time it’s the little things that mean the most.   You want to know what your partner needs from you to feel loved. They may

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Differences In Men & Women Who Cheat On Their Partner

The Differences Between Men & Women Who Cheat On Their Partner     What Type of Person is most likely to Cheat On Their Partner?   While the desire to cheat is a fundamental and unconscious, part of our human nature, thankfully, not everyone will be unfaithful. Like most of our behaviours, infidelity is not intentional. Cheating and having an affair can be driven by a situation rather than being calculated and someone out there looking

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Unhappy But Staying Together For The Kids?

Staying Together For The Kids Sake

  Are You Staying Together For The Children?   You’re married. You’re unhappy. But, you can’t leave because you don’t want to do it to your kids.    You would rather stay in the marriage, feeling unhappy, unloved and unsatisfied rather than taking the leap to leave the marriage. And you tell yourself you will only stay until the children leave home. Seriously, who do you think you’re kidding?   You’re staying together in the marriage

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When A Relationship Ends For No Reason

When A Relationship Ends For No Reason

When A Relationship Ends….     There is an assumption when you fall in love with someone you will stay with them forever. When a relationship ends it can be devastating. When things end in life, there is always sadness, hurt and feelings of regret. However, for every beginning there comes an end. As we grow up we change from being an infant, to a toddler, to an adolescent and to an adult. With each

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Just Because Your Partner Is Being An Arsehole It Doesn’t Mean He has A Mental Illness!

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  When You And Your Partner Can’t Get Along When people are struggling in their relationship and they are experiencing too much conflict things can start to get really nasty. When it gets nasty some people will seek comfort from their friends. They will have a big bitch about their partner and feel good after it. After all, they are talking with a friend who supports them, it was said in private and your mate

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The ONLY 3 Reasons People Go To A Relationship Counsellor

3 reasons why couples see a marriage counsellor

    3 Reasons People See A Relationship Counsellor:   Reason Number One:   The majority of people who come to see me about their relationships issues are seeking advice. They are looking for solutions on how to get their relationship back on track. When they talk about their partner they are respectful and kind. Silly little things over time created conflict and caused hurt feelings. They are seeing me because they want to get

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Is Your Relationship Healthy or Terminally Ill?

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  Is Your Relationship dying a slow death? Not all relationships are full of love, sunshine, rainbows and lollipops. Some relationships are plain ugly and self-destructive. Love can make you put up with a lot of things. Relationships are a lot like health and wellbeing, sickness and disease. They can change from loving and affectionate to loveless and lifeless. The relationships health has been infected by something. Would to get to the bottom of it

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