Love Chords: How Many Do You Have Left in Your Relationship?

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Relationship Love Chords Listening to couples relationship issues, there seems to be consistencies with the breakdown of a marriage or relationship. The consistencies are the things that create a blockage in our communication and feelings. I believe we are allocated a certain amount of “love chords”. These love chords develop in the beginning of the relationship. They are built from love, trust, respect and admiration. The love chords are attached from your heart to your

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Sex: Can’t get NO Satisfaction?

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Not getting enough sex? Are you in a relationship that’s missing the spice? Do you want HOT sex but you’re getting the COLD shoulder instead? Lack of sex is one of the biggest killers in a relationship. It’s not everything in a relationship but it does define you as a couple, because it’s something you only do with your partner. Once the intimacy and sex dissipates the relationship can go down hill quickly going from

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11 Essential Qualities of a Good Marriage

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  Qualities Of A Good Marriage   Relationships are very different to what we believe they are supposed to be. Most of us grew up to learn that as a woman you would marry your prince charming and live happily every after. Holy crap that fantasy comes complete with 7 little dwarf men or a bunch of fairies and forest animals who would love to clean your house! Obviously this is not the case and

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7 Questions To Help You Get Over Anger

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How To Get Over Your Anger If you are human then chances are you have experience anger and probably more times than you care to remember or at acknowledge. Let’s face it; anger doesn’t usually bring out the best in us.  In fact, anger can bring out a side in us that is ugly and even scary at times. Especially when we feel our back is up against the wall we are going to fight

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Is your Best Friends Marriage Better Than Yours?

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Are You Jealous Of Your Best Friend’s Marriage? If people were really honest about their marriage with their friends and were able to open and share their experiences of failures and successes then we would all feel a little more “normal”. We would be able to express our fear and our concerns in a safe environment with the support of people we trust. When things are not going well in our relationships we begin to

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38 Ways to Improve Your Marriage

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  It takes two people who really want to have a happy marriage to give the time and attention it needs to grow year after year. If your looking to improve your marriage, all you need to do is make the decision and start with small steps.   How To Improve Your Marriage   As a marriage Counsellor, I’m often asked, “What can I do to improve my marriage?”   I thought I would make

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3 Parts to a Successful Relationship

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3 Parts To Any Relationship Why is it that some people have really strong, loving relationships and other’s are feeling so much pressure and emotional turmoil in their relationship, that they just don’t know what to do or how to get it back on track? Relationships shouldn’t be hard work but they should include consistent effort from both partners to make it a great one. There are 3 Parts to a Successful Relationship: ONE PART

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